Should we really believe relationship.
I've been watching so many drama talk about relationship between lovers. One loves the other one crazy so that they can finally find out something cruical to their lover. Then relationship is never like pure sexual affection or emotional attachment. Relationship is about keeping secret as a secret forever. Kidnapper wants your money, your lover wants your everything. Isn't it horrible and terrible. So, should we still believe relationship?

Another thing is relevent to this topic. You never know a person.
I have known a guy for a year or a little bit shorter. I will take him as someone who always wanna hang out with girls, nice but still cares about money very much and sometime as long as he can, would like to have a affair with beauties. But suddenly, yesterday, I know he has a girlfriend as I never know, turns out in China, but will be here in USA soon for the graduate school in another city. So, what's the constraint about this relationship? How can you believe people mark themselve as unavailable all the time? How can you believe your lover won't see somebody else? Should we just love and trust until something we dont want to see happens.?
Again, relationship is about what?